I go by #Servivorgirl. Celebrating almost 14 years since diagnosis of stage IIIC ovarian cancer, recently restaged to IVB. My blog is called Nobody Has Ovarian Cancer because I felt like a nobody upon the eventual correct diagnosis. Being told multiple times that I was too young to have ovarian cancer, I did not receive the proper testing. I am so grateful to Him for all those who allow me to share my love, to those who love me and those who treat my illness. I praise Him always.
Friday, September 30, 2011
This is my dear mom. Looking at her in this photo I see the true spirit of my mother. She has in her hands my sister's Sketchbook Project booklet http://weatheredsilo.blogspot.com/2010/12/my-sketchbook-final-entry.html Mandy is such a natural artist, as is my mom. Even my brother is greatly talented. My mom loves art. In this candid moment I see her sincere deep joy in seeing my sister's works, and just being so so so happy for Mandy.
I am here to witness this joy! I am here to participate in life and be with my family. There is no greater joy to me, other than my reverence to our dear Lord, than to be with my family. All of my family, which includes you.
Thank you all for supporting Ovarian Cancer Awareness month, and a shout out to Tammy G. for wearing her teal shirt as she holds her precious daughter Lila.
The point of this post is that I could have missed this moment, but I didn't. Thank you God.
Love,
Denise
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Dr. Oz and the test you can take to your doctor
Dr. Oz is a champion in the campaign to "Break the Silence on Ovarian Cancer" These images are selected from www.doctoroz.com. Dr. Goff of the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance appeared on his show and is a re-assuring presence in this fearful arena of OC.
Please visit his website to learn about the lifesaving measures we can take to prevent Ovarian Cancer from growing out of control
There is nothing I can personally add to this informative program accept to say that I wish my gynecologists and PCP from my pre-OC life were paying attention. Don't let your doctor fall asleep at the wheel.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Beauty in my Sister's Paintings
WEATHERED SILO
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150.00 | 150.00 | 30.00 | $30.00 |
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WEATHERED SILO
Friday, September 09, 2011
Mom I admire you
I have been asked many times by my Seattle doctors, and recently a psychologist, to identify what really kept me going every day. It is not easy to identify the force that drives us to live, even when we are healthy. When we are healthy, we wake up and live our lives.
We go to sleep and start over the next day. "Living" is up to God and is not in our control, but the "will" to live comes from another place. I always look to God and find that the people around me give me the desire to keep going.
My mom was and remains a driving force behind my will to traverse the path of a new life, even when I just want to quit. I'm in a tough spot, and need to get an actual life started again. It's more about resources. I have none....ha! I just have to think positive and believe that I will be able to take care of myself financially. That's all I can do.
My mom believes that I will make it.
Although my mom has started dialysis, she is determined to remain independent and that means that I am being requested to keep looking for a new place and resume some sort of life, after cancer.
I could stay here forever, because I want to be here if she needs something. She is so strong. I will miss her so much when I move out.
My mom is AMAZING. She is more driven and determined and motivated to live than anyone I know. She is a Type I diabetic, has been for over 40 years. Usually Type I diabetics need to start dialysis after 20 years, but my mom has taken such good care of herself that she has been able to wait 40 years.
She has to work to keep herself alive every day, maintaining her insulin pump, checking her blood sugars, watching every calorie, and type of food. Now that she's started dialysis, we find ourselves spending 15 hours a week at a treatment center and she is hooked up to a machine that cleans her blood.
This is her new life, machine one and machine two (insulin pump and dialysis). If she decides to stop connecting herself to either machine, she will die.
So she wills herself every day to connect to a machine, and live. She too has pain, and complications, but just keeps on keeping on.
She is so forgiving, so forgiving. Puts me to shame. One of her doctors could have given her a little better advice and it caused her some problems, but that is over now and she is just moving forward.
God asks us to be forgiving and love our neighbors. I believe that God uses people around us to talk to us in subtle ways, and we need to just listen. Be quiet, and alert, and open to the cues.
There are many other people in my life, family and friends, who give me "will" to keep going to find my new life, but I just wanted to spend a little time talking about mom.
She is an artist, a debater, an activist, a rebel, a great caregiver, and a great grandmother. Her creativity is endless and she is passionate about all people having equal opportunity and that all humans are treated with dignity. She is so intelligent, and strong-willed. She is very loving.
I love you mom.
Denise
Friday, September 02, 2011
Direct from President Obama on Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month
The White House
Office of the Press Secretary
For Immediate Release
September 01, 2011
Presidential Proclamation--National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month
NATIONAL OVARIAN CANCER AWARENESS MONTH, 2011
BY THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA
A PROCLAMATION
Ovarian cancer continues to have one of the highest mortality rates of any cancer, and it is a leading cause of cancer deaths among women in the United States. This month, we remember the mothers, sisters, and daughters we have lost to ovarian cancer, and we extend our support to those living with this disease. We also reaffirm our commitment to raising awareness about ovarian cancer, and to advancing our screening and treatment capabilities for the thousands of American women who will be diagnosed this year.
Ovarian cancer touches women of all backgrounds and ages. Because of a lack of early symptoms and effective screening tests, ovarian cancer is often not detected in time for successful interventions. It is crucial that women know how to recognize the warning signs of gynecological cancers and can detect the disease as early as possible. I encourage all women to learn about risk factors, including family history, and to discuss possible symptoms, including abdominal pain, with their doctor. Now, because of the Affordable Care Act, a wide range of preventive screenings are available to women without any copayments, deductibles, or coinsurance.
My Administration is committed to supporting the women, families, and professionals working to end this disease. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and the Department of Health and Human Services have started a campaign to educate women on cancers affecting reproductive organs. The National Cancer Institute is researching new ways to detect ovarian cancer, publishing a comprehensive study of the most aggressive types of ovarian cancer, and conducting clinical trials for new combinations of therapy. And this year, agencies across the Federal Government, from the National Institutes of Health to the Department of Defense, have committed to supporting ovarian cancer prevention and treatment research.
So many lives have been touched by ovarian cancer -- from the women who fight this disease, to the families who join their loved ones in fighting their battle. In the memory of all the brave women who have lost their lives to ovarian cancer, and in support of generations of women to come, let us recommit to reaching a safer, healthier future for all our citizens.
NOW, THEREFORE, I, BARACK OBAMA, President of the United States of America, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and the laws of the United States, do hereby proclaim September 2011 as National Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. I call upon citizens, government agencies, organizations, health-care providers, and research institutions to raise ovarian cancer awareness and continue helping Americans live longer, healthier lives. And I urge women across the country to talk to their health-care providers and learn more about this disease.
IN WITNESS WHEREOF, I have hereunto set my hand this first day of September, in the year of our Lord two thousand eleven, and of the Independence of the United States of America the two hundred and thirty-sixth.
BARACK OBAMA
DEAR PRESIDENT OBAMA, THANK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART
DENISE ARCHULETA
DENISE ARCHULETA
Monday, August 29, 2011
Turn Facebook Teal to Heal in September
Red Alert!!!!!
I am asking Mark Zuckerberg to turn Facebook Teal in September!!!! Please help me. Here is a link to a discussion on his public profile page.
Please also "like" my page in Facebook! Even if we get one day, one is better than none!
Save the life of a daughter, a mom, a sister!
Save the life of a daughter, a mom, a sister!
Ovarian cancer
Causes, incidence, and risk factors
Ovarian cancer is the fifth most common cancer among women.
Symptoms
Ovarian cancer symptoms are often vague. Women and their doctors often blame the
symptoms on other, more common conditions. By the time the cancer is diagnosed, the
tumor has often spread beyond the ovaries.
You should see your doctor if you have the following symptoms on a daily basis
for more than a few weeks:
- Difficulty eating or feeling full quickly
- Pelvic or abdominal pain
Other symptoms are also seen with ovarian cancer.
However, these symptoms are also common in women who do not have cancer:
- Abnormal menstrual cycles
- Digestive symptoms:
- Increased gas
- Nausea and vomiting
- Sense of pelvic heaviness
- Swollen abdomen or belly
- Unexplained back pain that worsens over time
- Vague lower abdominal discomfort
- Weight gain or loss
Other symptoms that can occur with this disease:
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Something simply beautiful for a change
Take a moment to breathe in and delight in the beauty of Mandy's special works of art. So precious.
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weathered silo (2)
Peace to all,
Love,
Denise
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weathered silo (2)
Peace to all,
Love,
Denise
Tuesday, August 23, 2011
Guest post from David Haas
Hello friends, I have posted an article by David Haas on the benefits of exercise when you have cancer. I can fully appreciate the importance. Before cancer I was walking two miles a day. Chemo steals your soul, but only for a little while. As the chemo fades, the ability to do more increases over time. Thank you David for your well written article.
Peace and blessings, Denise
Peace and blessings, Denise
Cancer Patients Can Benefit From Exercise
It is a great accomplishment to survive cancer and the main priority for most cancer survivors is to keep the cancer from returning. Current research points to the fact that exercise can benefit cancer patients.
If you have traveled down the long road of cancer treatments for any type of cancer including but not limited to colon cancer, breast cancer, or even a rare and aggressive disease like mesothelioma, or any other type of cancer, you are probably searching for ways that can help you stay healthy. Exercise for cancer patients has been shown by research to help cancer patients create a longer life expectancy when there is a grim prognosis, and even helps the body fight the chance of recurrence if they have already pushed the disease away. In several different studies, it has been proven that being unfit and lethargic after completing treatment was linked to a higher risk of the cancer returning and a shorter survival time.
The benefits of exercise are highly stressed for the normal population, but it is not as well known that cancer survivors can experience many of the same benefits. The benefits towards one’s body include less weight gain, leaner body mass, and greater muscle strength, but the real benefits have to do with the regained energy one receives and lower stress levels they have. Whether one is going through treatment or recently completed it Physical fitness can help gain these energy levels back that are usually sucked out of the body from the treatments.
The research has shown that people who have been diagnosed with cancer tend to slow down. This is attributed to depression, stress, and feeling fatigued from cancer and the treatments. It is extremely understandable to be having these feelings but it is counterproductive to not take a stand against them. It is recommended that cancer patients start exercising as soon as possible after their diagnosis and treatment. In other words, if you have slowed your physical activity after your cancer diagnosis, now is the time to rev your engine.
According to the National Cancer Institute, the American Cancer Society recommends 30 to 60 minutes of exercise five times a week to receive the maximum benefits for reducing your risk of reoccurrence and raising your chances to beat this disease. The types of exercise recommended are flexibility exercises to keep you mobile, aerobic exercises for cardiovascular health, and resistance training to build muscle. Everyone is at different levels of exercise and if you are at a low level to start just taking a walk can go a long way to relieve some of the stress involved with this awful disease.
If you have traveled down the long road of cancer treatments for any type of cancer including but not limited to colon cancer, breast cancer, or even a rare and aggressive disease like mesothelioma, or any other type of cancer, you are probably searching for ways that can help you stay healthy. Exercise for cancer patients has been shown by research to help cancer patients create a longer life expectancy when there is a grim prognosis, and even helps the body fight the chance of recurrence if they have already pushed the disease away. In several different studies, it has been proven that being unfit and lethargic after completing treatment was linked to a higher risk of the cancer returning and a shorter survival time.
The benefits of exercise are highly stressed for the normal population, but it is not as well known that cancer survivors can experience many of the same benefits. The benefits towards one’s body include less weight gain, leaner body mass, and greater muscle strength, but the real benefits have to do with the regained energy one receives and lower stress levels they have. Whether one is going through treatment or recently completed it Physical fitness can help gain these energy levels back that are usually sucked out of the body from the treatments.
The research has shown that people who have been diagnosed with cancer tend to slow down. This is attributed to depression, stress, and feeling fatigued from cancer and the treatments. It is extremely understandable to be having these feelings but it is counterproductive to not take a stand against them. It is recommended that cancer patients start exercising as soon as possible after their diagnosis and treatment. In other words, if you have slowed your physical activity after your cancer diagnosis, now is the time to rev your engine.
According to the National Cancer Institute, the American Cancer Society recommends 30 to 60 minutes of exercise five times a week to receive the maximum benefits for reducing your risk of reoccurrence and raising your chances to beat this disease. The types of exercise recommended are flexibility exercises to keep you mobile, aerobic exercises for cardiovascular health, and resistance training to build muscle. Everyone is at different levels of exercise and if you are at a low level to start just taking a walk can go a long way to relieve some of the stress involved with this awful disease.
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Teal is on the horizon, wear teal on Sept 2, 2011
http://www.unitedstatesofteal.org/take-action/
Time | Friday, September 2 · 12:00am - 11:30pm |
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Location | Across the United States |
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More Info | Teal is the color of ovarian cancer awareness. On the first Friday in September, our national ovarian cancer awareness month, we urge everyone who cares about this disease to wear teal--and tell others why you are dressed in this color. This year, we're adding a social media component to Wear Teal Day. Please post photos of yourself decked out in teal on Facebook, and tag the Ovarian Cancer National Alliance. We want to create an album of women and men in teal from coast to coast. |
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