Thursday, November 20, 2014
The Holidays In Small Doses
Ladies, I am thinking about those of you who are on your first course, or any course, of intensive chemotherapy. This time of year is an exceptionally difficult time to be experiencing side effects from surgery and treatments.
I had spent several hours drafting a lengthy and detailed post that I was hoping could assist you in preparing for Thanksgiving. God had other plans. It got deleted, poof! It must have been too long, ha!
Do as I do, they say. Here is the abbreviated version.
Maintain the essance of the holidays with simplicity, in every way. Truly, keep things simple.
Mimimize expectations. Worry not about tradition and what people think. Trust in the people who love you. Let people help you.
Your body, mind, emotions and spirit are in turmoil. Simplicity will help you keep your feet on the ground.
If you are a woman of faith, ask for God's help. Ask people to pray for you.
I sigh heavily remembering how overwhelming everything felt during that first course of treatment, still in severe pain from my debulking surgery. Experiencing the holiday season in small doses is just easier.
I did wonder about things like how many more holidays do I have with my loved ones. That is normal, for the most part. Spreading out the opportunities to be with the people you love may help deflect some of that worry in your heart.
If there is only one major event to attend, an enormous amount of pressure exists to make the most out of THAT one thing. Instead pencil in more options for smaller manageable events here and there. If by chance you are feeling beat up on the actual celebration day, your cup will still feel full.
Well, you know what I mean.
As the old saying goes, don't place all your eggs in one basket.
I just want to avail myself as a sounding board. I love this time of year. I am so thankful and grateful for my family, friends, doctors and to God that I am here. What else can I say?
Peace and blessings,